Recently, I had a vision in a dream that I would like to share.
The message in my dream provided specific information about dating and relationships during the COVID Era.
If you are single or in a relationship, LOVE can be a tricky endeavor to maneuver in the 21st century, especially during COVID.
Working at a Witch store in Salem, MA, I can tell you, first hand, there are no “quick fix” Love Spells.
Why? Because you can never impose your will on another, and everything is an energy exchange. Although energy is unseen, it is all around us and can greatly impact your relationships.
Changing your energy is much like changing the direction of the the wind in your sails. You are, after all, the Captain of your own ship and need no ones permission to change course.
Currently, with the way things are on the internet and online dating, it unfortunately puts men at a great advantage. The World Wide Web has provided them a candy store full of women on demand, making it virtually impossible to trust your partner or date properly.
And then there is the famous GHOSTING. Just the word itself implies complete inauthenticity. Is this really what we’ve come to after all these years?
Accepting GHOSTING is accepting disrespect, manipulation and bad treatment from the opposite sex. And what is even more disturbing is men will come back after ghosting like nothing happened, and that is simply not acceptable.
Men have set up GHOSTING to work quite well to their advantage, for it allows them total lack of accountability.
And if women should ask, the normal, sensible question, ‘where have you been’, men feel entitled to give them no such explanation, or some half – assed, lame excuse. It’s like, really? I don’t think so!
I get more calls from women making excuses for men who just out of the blue, with no explanation, GHOST.
Yet, as a culture, whether you’re dating, married or in a relationship, this behavior is now the new normal. It is disturbing that emotional manipulation and gas lighting are now the new normal.
I truly believe women get thrown off by ghosting because it is the silent treatment and women are more verbal with their emotions. Men, on the other hand, tend to express emotion through their actions, not their words.
This complete breakdown of communication leaves many women confused, bewildered and blaming themselves. As a result, women will often try to express their concerns verbally, only to be met with more silent treatment, aka ghosting.
However, the silent treatment is one of the worst forms of psychological manipulation and control.
Until women can understand this and rise up collectively to see GHOSTING for what it is, a form of emotional manipulation, gaslighting and psychological control, it will undoubtedly continue. Just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean it isn’t happening, as actions speak louder than words ever can.
You Are A Goddess
As women we have come way to far to deal with this crap. I don’t think so ladies!
That’s why it is more important than ever to stand up and honor your self worth. Yes that’s right, I said, SELF WORTH.
You are a goddess and you don’t deserve to be treated this way!
All women at a primal level are goddesses and should be treated as such. Until we can get the word out and women can rise up, this bad behavior will undoubtedly continue.
What You Can Do
That’s where I come in. Through a unique combination of my exclusive Tarot spreads, psychic intuition and life coaching, I will guide you to learn how to deal with a man who isn’t giving you the respect & love you deserve. You will learn how to respond to a man that just GHOSTS., or is being disrespectful, but not in the way that you think. Everything is energy and you will learn how to manage your energy to attract what you need and want, and discard the rest.
By learning to do this and learning the 3 Principles of Lust, you will be well on your way to manifesting love in your life, over coming obstacles and healing.
Self worth is easier than you think, for it starts with how you think about yourself.
There are only two things I need from you, the willingness to be your authentic self and to be willing to honor your inner goodness and self worth.
by Julie Randazzo
Julie Randazzo is a Spiritual Advisor, Psychic Medium, Tarot Consultant, and Life Coach at 12listen.com